May 26th, 2020: Pray that We Will Be OK
Things that used to be normal now become precious. Things we used
to do without much worry now we have to think twice about it. Nothing
can be more troublesome than grandparents cannot come and visit their
grand kids, friends can just gather for a meal or a drink, children
cannot come and see their elderly parents in nursing homes, parents
cannot come home and hug their kids because of their jobs, good friends
cannot shake hands and embrace, families cannot go to ballparks and have
fun together, ...there are so many things.
When we think about these unfortunate facts, what should we pray for?
Pray
that we don't lose our humanity. We are created for community and
family. When we lose that aspect of our life, we might lose more than we
are aware of. Suddenly we become tenser and wonder what others might
give to us and vice versa. Staying emotionally engaged while physically
distancing is not an easy task. We can "zoom" as much as we like and
that doesn't replace the needed human touch of a friend.
Pray
that we don't allow the spirit of non-trusting to take over how we
think and feel. When we do that, we don't have a sense of healthy
connection with others. Being careful is one thing, being paranoid is
another. Now we are called to practice discernment more than ever
before. Being careless is also another form of non-trusting spirit that
points toward the government and the authority.
Pray
that we don't lose our " joie de vivre" because it takes a longer time
to do anything and there is not much to do at the same time. Being
flexible is key to have a healthy life because things can change so
quickly. The joy we have now is not about being able to do what we love
to do. It is about seeing our whole life as a series of precious moments
that are being knitted together. Being flexible will help us to cherish
one moment to the next.
I got a phone call
from a friend whose house almost got flooded just a few days after they
moved in. They had not even finished unpacking. Here was what he said to
his wife: "First Covid-19, now the flood, I am so happy that we have
one another. It will be ok."
Yes, things will be ok. God is still there.
James 1: 2-3
"Consider
it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many
kinds because you know that the testing of your faith produces
perseverance."