Sept 16th, 2021: Wrongful Accusation


Have you ever been wrongfully accused because you have decided to do something you believe you need to do? It happened to me recently. These folks did not give me the time to explain my thoughts behind my decision. It was rather interesting to see to their reactions because the terminologies they used to tell me how wrong my choice was can also apply to them. Of course, I didn't say that. It was only my naughty thought.


Wrongful accusation reveals the troubling fear of relationships we have with ourselves. We don't want to hear each other out. We just have to state our stand and feel protected. Self-protection can be damaging to meaningful relationships when we do that in fear.


A wrongful accusation can rob us of an opportunity of learning from one another. When we accuse another person, we most likely will not listen to him or her well. We decide to get to the destination without the appreciation of the journey. In some ways, it might show us our emotional immaturity.


Wrongful accusation stops us from growing in our faith. An accusing heart is a heart that has not yet experienced God's mercy and forgiveness. That will affect the development of our spiritual life. Sometimes we even use accusations towards others to avoid dealing with our self-accusation.


1 Peter 2: 1-3

"So put away all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander. Like newborn infants, long for the pure spiritual milk, that by it you may grow up into salvation if indeed you have tasted that the Lord is good."

 

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