Nov 27th, 2021: How to Help?

 

It went for a walk after learning about the death of a father due to a motor vehicle accident. He had a young family. I don't know the family, but my heart still aches for his wife and children. There are many challenges they have to face because they are new in this country. They ought to be in shock and overwhelmed. How do we help people during such a time?


We have to be practical: They need help to take care of things. They don't have the emotional energy to answer all of the questions. They need definite answers to some of their questions. The more practical we are, the better we can help them.


We should be understanding: They don't always make sense in how they talk. Their thoughts are unclear. Their emotions are like floodwater. They might appear to be frustrated at times. We need to be patient and understanding.


We should learn how to be available: They might find comfort knowing that some people can be there for them. We don't need to say very much by being with them. Consistency is valuable, and tranquility is peaceful to their hearts. 


So please pray for this family.


Psalm 94: 19

"When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy."


Psalm 121: 1-2

"I lift up my eyes to the hills-- where does my help come from?

My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth."

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